Cancer Love and Relationships
Ruling planet: The Moon
Element: Water
Symbol: The Crab
The Moon, which is a mysterious celestial body, rules people born under the sign of Cancer and this mystery reflects very strongly upon the Cancer individual. Most Cancers carry within themselves great contradictions. They are extremely sensitive, which obviously has both good and bad sides. They can be compassionate with loved ones, but can also make hurtful remarks when they feel threatened. Like their symbol The Crab, they can seem strong on the outside, but vulnerable and insecure beneath.
Just as the tides are affected by The Moon’s pull, so are the moods of the Cancer. They will often be happy and boisterous one moment, and in the depths of despair the next. Theirs is a changing and seemingly erratic personality, and any partner must be able to accept that, otherwise the relationship would not work.
The love-relationship of a Cancer is probably the most important area of their life. They are interested only in a meaningful and long-term relationship, preferably ending in marriage, and the Cancer isn’t willing to waste their time with anything else. When they enter a relationship, be it for love or friendship, they want to be important to that person, just as that person is going to be important to the Cancer. The first instinct of Cancer is to dote upon the object of their affections.
There is no zodiac sign whose love can surpass the intensity and also the vulnerability of Cancer. For this reason, a Cancer must be cautious selecting a partner. They simply will not function well if they are with someone who is too pragmatic and practical to allow the Cancer to share their emotions. Someone born under the sign of Cancer will need a partner who makes them feel warm and safe and loved. With such depth of emotion, they may find their soul-mate in a Scorpio, Piscean, or even another Cancer.
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