Casual relationships (also called “friends with benefits”) describes a relationship between two people who have set a limit on the level of emotional or formal commitment that they require from one another. Often a situation will exist where two friends are interested in physical intimacy with one another, but do not desire a formal relationship. Their “friendship” relationship suits them both quite well, and adding a sexual element to the relationship is considered a bonus.

 

The reasons that people enter casual relationships vary. They are usually different than the reasons for casual sex however, where no enduring connection is intended. A casual relationship can often include dating, levels of emotional support and friendship, but the overriding concept is that there is a limit to the commitment required by each partner. It is not unusual for a casual relationship to develop into a “regular” relationship over time, however this is not often the intended outcome when a casual relationship is entered into.

 

In some casual relationships, both partners are able to see other people as well. This situation is usually referred to as an “open relationship”. Other casual relationships are exclusive, meaning that the people involved are only physically intimate with one another. Even in exclusive or monogamous “casual relationships” however, there are usually limitations placed on the levels of commitment, emotional intimacy, and dependence upon one another. Also there can be timeframes stipulated beyond which the casual relationship is not expected to last i.e.: until one party leaves to travel overseas, or until one person goes away to college.

 

Casual relationships are also common among people who are particularly dedicated to their work, study, or who have other commitments. A young couple might engage in a casual relationship because she is busy with work, and he is finishing his university course, and neither of them feels comfortable committing to a “serious” relationship. In such instances a casual relationship may work out well for the couple, and a more regular relationship may develop later on when one or both of them have more time available to pursue it.

 

It’s important to remember that casual relationships don’t suit everyone however. If you are the sort of person who finds themselves getting emotionally attached or hurt in relationships, then this probably isn’t for you. If you feel that a casual relationship is something that might suit your current situation in life, then that’s great. Just be sure that you and your partner are both clear and upfront about what you are intending to get out of the relationship, and it should work out fine.

 

You also might want to read about Open Relationships for a bit more information.