He loves me, he loves me not. Unfortunately pulling the petals off a flower is not the most conclusive way to find out if the boy in your life is in love with you or not. Luckily there are a few, slightly more accurate ways to tell what is going on in his heart.

 

He loves me if he still does romantic things with me, even after all this time.

He loves me not if we don’t talk together anymore.

He loves me when I can see the way he feels just by looking into his eyes.

He loves me not when he forgets my birthday or our anniversary.

He loves me when he notices and appreciates when I make small changes to my appearance, like new hairstyle or clothes.

He loves me not if he doesn’t try to get along with my friends and family.

He loves me if he comes with me to birthday parties for people he doesn’t even know.

He loves me not if he doesn’t look after me when I’m sick or feeling upset.

He loves me if he asks how things are going at work, how my day was, or how I’ve been.

He loves me not if he never wants to make fixed plans that involve me.

He loves me if he introduces me to his friends and family.

He loves me not if he doesn’t trust me.

He loves me if he tries to be nice to my family and friends. . . even the really annoying ones.

He loves me not if he is unpredictable around me: sometimes happy, sometimes grumpy for no apparent reason.

He loves me when he says he loves me with actions as well as words.

He loves me not when he answers my “I love you” with “Gee. . . that’s nice”

He loves me when he brings me flowers for no reason at all.

He loves me not if he only introduces me as his “friend”

He loves me if he is proud to be with me.

He loves me not if he is never there when I need him.

He loves me if calls me, rather than me having to be the one to call him.

He loves me not if he doesn’t ever want to discuss our future together.

He loves me if he encourages me.

He loves me not if he mocks my ideas in front of others.

He loves me if he always smiles when he sees me.

He loves me not if he acts like spending time with me is a chore.

He loves me if my happiness is his happiness, and visa versa.

Also have a look at How To Know Love